Love, Like or lust?

Gosh, doesn't this apply to 99% of our lives! Food, Fashion and relationships. Its a funny dynamic. Shoes are a good example of that and yet so are beer goggles. We want to see the fantasy but the reality is a shoe that may be oh so fab can cause you so much pain and waking up next to someone who may have looked a little different while under the influence, yet that can be scary too. Hypothetically speaking of course.

How do we REALLY decipher? What is real and what is fantasy? Every morning I stand on the scale, sometimes just on one foot in hopes my miracle number shows up. The reality is it won't happen but the fantasy is if I remove all items of clothing, including any rubber band in my hair, I just might be back to the weight I was once when I was 18 :)

This brings me to love, like or lust. I admit, I am a self sleeve wearer. That has really proven to not be such a great trait of mine! I can self destruct with the best of them. Working on that.

I think its all about love in life. Love is unconditional and should not judge. OK, we do but believe a true friend and a true love, will always see through the goggles even when they get a little bit cloudy.

Finding my tune~