Wow, what a year can bring. Christmas is just around the corner and I am very much looking forward to the year ahead. I feel so incredibly blessed for the love and life of my son, my husband, my family and my friends. I really think that God has a way of always putting things into perspective and though the years I have continued to grow.
There is no question that everyday I miss my parents. I miss them for me but most of all I miss them for my son. Grandparents are wonderful and I wish my parents were here for him. I know they are in spirit though and I also believe it is their "wings" that got Carter and I though some really rough patches in the past two years. There is nothing more painful than having a doctor say that there is nothing else we can do but wait and then there is the waiting. Carter was in God's hands and nine hours later turned around. We joked it was the binky but as the the doctor told us...he had never seen a baby ween off an epinephrine drip. We are truly blessed.
Sometimes I forget that I had a heart attack and surgery last January. I had a 70 percent blockage in my LAD. A doctor just yesterday called it the "widow maker". I had never heard that before and suddenly I was reminded of my mortality and how truly blessed and lucky I am. As Women we tend to put everyone before ourselves but it important to remember that you need to make your health a priority because without you, who would take care of them! I have every intention of scaring every girl that comes into my son's life:) Seriously, with his eyes I am in trouble!!!!!
So, as the weather outside is frightful and the fire is so delightful and since we have places to go...plow the snow, plow the snow, plow the snow:)
Have a blessed, healthy, happy and WONDERFUL Holiday and ditto for the New YEAR!!!!
To my sister in Iraq...come home safely. I love you! Thank you for laying under the Christmas tree with me for so many years and smuggling our jelly jar shots of Coca~cola. You started my addiction!
Until next time..LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
Deanna
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Sunday, December 12, 2010
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| Redskins prepare for second half! |
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| With some of the amazing kids from "Recess on the River"! |
I have been asked, why do you do pageants? Is it for the crown? Well as much as I love a little bling, today was yet another great reminder as to the opportunities that the crown offers and the difference you can make. I feel so blessed and honored to volunteer my time with the American Heart Association. They offer so many great community programs and enhance the life of so many with education, events and even making dreams come true. One of the many great programs is "Recess by the River".
"Recess by the River" is a day full of fun and educational activities, Recess by the River empowers D.C.’s kids to lead stronger, healthier lives. Presented by CareFirst BlueCross BlueShield, Recess by the River is an annual event thrown by the American Heart Association with support from D.C. Parks and Recreation and National Association of Teen Fitness and Exercise. This kickoff event engaged over two hundred kids from Wards 5, 6, 7 and 8 in the District. Due to D.C. having one of the highest Child Obesity ratings, Recess by the River plays an integral part in giving kids a second chance at a long healthy life.
· In the District of Columbia, over 35% of children are overweight or obese—making it one of the highest levels of childhood obesity in the nation.
· Over 1,500 children in Washington DC’s Wards 5, 6, 7 and 8 have been empowered to live healthier lives through our Recess by the River program.
· Nearly one out of every three children and adolescents are overweight or obese, making childhood obesity one of our nation’s leading health threats
· Nearly 25 million overweight and obese children and teens run the risk of earlier onset of adult disease such as high blood pressure, cholesterol and diabetes
"Recess by the River" |

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| With one of my favorite USO people! |
I, along with Miss Teen International 2010, Juliana Mckee were honored to accept the award given by the Washington Redskins on behalf of the American Heart Association. (the USO was also awarded today for their incredible work they do for our military soldiers and their families. I felt VERY honored to share the field!)
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| With Scott Shepard, VP Sales an d Marketing, Washington Redskins and Juliana McKee, Miss Teen International 2010 |
A huge thank you to Glaxo Smith Kline for the wonderful buffet supplied to all of the children and Scott Shepherd, VP Sales and Marketing, Washington Redskins for helping to make this day possible.
One of the best moments of my day was when one of the amazing children came up to me and said, "I can't thank you enough for this day". This is what life is about....what a great day. Pouring rain and cold but what a great day!
Until next time...listen to your heart....D
Friday, December 10, 2010
This week has been one of a journey. Carter had a GJ tube placed for feeding. Due to being born at 23 weeks, we have gone through a lot of complications but I think it has made our family stronger. Carter has shown my husband and myself that we can make it through anything. We are beyond blessed to have Carter as our son and daily he inspires me. I have to admit, the most exciting part of my day is when he wakes up and smiles at me! Sometimes I just want to wake him up...which I know we should never wake a sleeping baby but his smile should be seen and shared daily! (this is a GUSHING Mother!)
I also, this week, was contacted by MORE Magazine. I had a great interview by such an accomplished writer, Tamara Jones. I look forward to when the piece comes out.
Can you believe Christmas is just a few weeks away!
Many blessings and never forget to LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!
D
I also, this week, was contacted by MORE Magazine. I had a great interview by such an accomplished writer, Tamara Jones. I look forward to when the piece comes out.
Can you believe Christmas is just a few weeks away!
Many blessings and never forget to LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!
D
| WISHING EVERYONE A HEART HEALTHY,HAPPY AND BLESSED HOLIDAY SEASON! THE LINZ FAMILY~ANDY,DEANNA,CARTER,HALO,JOSIE AND JACK |
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Thanksgiving is just a few days a way! Its hard to believe. As I was running on the treadmill this morning, it got me thinking. What will I eat for Thanksgiving? Why is it when we work out we think of food! It can be an evil cycle.
The average Thanksgiving meal is over 3000 calories! Throw in the leftovers and we are talking at least a week of the possibility of not making the right heart healthy choices.
So on Thanksgiving, its important to remember portion control. EAT, ENJOY FAMILY AND FRIENDS....but WALK. Eat more Turkey and less stuffing. Start with a salad. Drink a lot of water to help fill you up. Most of all remember your heart. I know its just one day but in life, every moment counts!
For some great heart healthy recipes check out http://www.heart.org/
Don't forget today and everyday...LISTEN TO YOUR HEART and have a safe and blessed Thanksgiving!
The average Thanksgiving meal is over 3000 calories! Throw in the leftovers and we are talking at least a week of the possibility of not making the right heart healthy choices.
So on Thanksgiving, its important to remember portion control. EAT, ENJOY FAMILY AND FRIENDS....but WALK. Eat more Turkey and less stuffing. Start with a salad. Drink a lot of water to help fill you up. Most of all remember your heart. I know its just one day but in life, every moment counts!
For some great heart healthy recipes check out http://www.heart.org/
Don't forget today and everyday...LISTEN TO YOUR HEART and have a safe and blessed Thanksgiving!
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Once upon a time, there was a little girl that dreamed big. She watched pageants and loved princesses. Her hope was to one day be a princess and of course marry her prince....then she lived happily ever after!
I love Disney, fairy tales and dreams. Today was such a great day at the Thanksgiving parade.Can you believe it Thanksgiving already? WOW, time passes sooooo quickly!
There is nothing better than a child's smile and the holidays to make them say things like, "look at the princess" which opens my heart every time. Who doesn't love hope, dreams and a pageant queen at a parade. Lets face it, we love it more than them as my cheeks hurt from smiling so much. As a Mom, every time a child looked at me,waved and smiled it made me just want to hug Carter more and more (as if that is possible) as that's where dreams begin. Hey, I still dream EVERYDAY!
So the day was brisk but beautiful and I was joined by Miss Teen International 2010, Juliana McKee. She is such an inspiration. I fell blessed that I have gotten to know her in the past few months. Her journey continues to amaze me.
So today and everyday...listen to your heart!
Deanna
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| With Juliana Mckee, Miss Teen International 2010 and Adrienne Watson Carver, Mrs Maryland Galaxy 2010 |
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| With Juliana Mckee, Miss Teen International 2010 and such an amazing person! |
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| Waitng to start in the parade route! |
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| Our self portrait! |
I love Disney, fairy tales and dreams. Today was such a great day at the Thanksgiving parade.Can you believe it Thanksgiving already? WOW, time passes sooooo quickly!
There is nothing better than a child's smile and the holidays to make them say things like, "look at the princess" which opens my heart every time. Who doesn't love hope, dreams and a pageant queen at a parade. Lets face it, we love it more than them as my cheeks hurt from smiling so much. As a Mom, every time a child looked at me,waved and smiled it made me just want to hug Carter more and more (as if that is possible) as that's where dreams begin. Hey, I still dream EVERYDAY!
So the day was brisk but beautiful and I was joined by Miss Teen International 2010, Juliana McKee. She is such an inspiration. I fell blessed that I have gotten to know her in the past few months. Her journey continues to amaze me.
So today and everyday...listen to your heart!
Deanna
Thursday, November 18, 2010
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Tuesday, November 16, 2010
This past weekend at the Veteran's Health Screening was an enlightening experience for me as many questions were asked. It was great to see the community outreach and also share our message on making healthy choices to live a heart healthy life. I thought the questions were great one's so I thought I would share some information. When it comes to your heart, there is no question that should be left unanswered!
Learn about Heart Failure~
The heart is a muscle. Its pumps blood through the body. In heart failure, your hearts pumping power is weakened. Blood flows more slowly. Your body works harder to move blood.
Common cause if heart failure include
Signs and symptoms~
A heart attack happens when blood can't reach part of your heart. That part starves fore oxygen. As a result, the heart may not pump blood as it should. This can result in permanent damage to the heart, or death.
Coronary artery disease is a common underlying cause of a heart attack. Your coronary arteries are the blood vessels that bring blood and oxygen to your heart. Coronary artery disease happens when fatty deposits, called plaque, build up inside the coronary arteries. This substance can narrow or block coronary arteries. As a result, the heart gets less blood.
How can you reduce your risk of a heart attack~
If you smoke, quit. If someone in your household smokes, encourage them to quit. We know it's tough. But it's tougher to recover from a heart attack or stroke or to live with chronic heart disease. Commit to quit.
A healthy diet is one of the best weapons you have to fight cardiovascular disease. The food you eat (and the amount) can affect other controllable risk factors: cholesterol, blood pressure, diabetes and overweight. Choose nutrient-rich foods — which have vitamins, minerals, fiber and other nutrients but are lower in calories — over nutrient-poor foods. A diet rich in vegetables, fruits, whole-grain and high-fiber foods, fish, lean protein and fat-free or low-fat dairy products is the key. And to maintain a healthy weight, coordinate your diet with your physical activity level so you're using up as many calories as you take in.
Select American Heart Association cookbooks
Fat lodged in your arteries is a disaster waiting to happen. Sooner or later it could trigger a heart attack or stroke. You've got to reduce your intake of saturated fat, trans fat and cholesterol and get moving. If diet and physical activity alone don't get those numbers down, then medication may be the key. Take it just like the doctor orders. Here's the lowdown on where those numbers need to be: Total Cholesterol: Less than 200 mg/dLLDL (bad) Cholesterol: If you're at low risk for heart disease: Less than 160 mg/dLIf you're at intermediate risk for heart disease: Less than 130 mg/dLIf you're at high risk for heart disease (including those with existing heart disease or diabetes): Less than 100mg/dLHDL (good) Cholesterol: 40 mg/dL or higher for men and 50 mg/dL or higher for womenTriglycerides: Less than 150 mg/dLVisit our Cholesterol website
It's the single largest risk factor for stroke. Stroke is the No. 3 killer and one of the leading causes of disability in the United States. Stroke recovery is difficult at best and you could be disabled for life. Shake that salt habit, take your medications as recommended by your doctor and get moving. Those numbers need to get down and stay down. Your goal is less than 120/80 mmHg.
Be physically active every day. Research has shown that getting at least 30 minutes of physical activity on 5 or more days of the week can help lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol and keep your weight at a healthy level. But something IS better than nothing. If you're doing nothing now, start out slow. Even 10 minutes at a time may offer some health benefits. Studies show that people who have achieved even a moderate level of fitness are much less likely to die early than those with a low fitness level.
Start! a walking program
Choose a BetterU: our free 12-week physical activity program for women
Obesity is an epidemic in America, not only for adults but also for children. An epidemic is when a health problem is out of control and many people are affected by it. Fad diets and supplements are not the answer. Good nutrition, controlling calorie intake and physical activity are the only way to maintain a healthy weight. Obesity places you at risk for high cholesterol, high blood pressure and insulin resistance, a precursor of type 2 diabetes — the very factors that heighten your risk of cardiovascular disease. Your Body Mass Index (BMI) can help tell you if your weight is healthy.
Calculate your Body Mass Index
Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of diabetes-related death. People with diabetes are two to four times more likely to develop cardiovascular disease due to a variety of risk factors, including high blood pressure, high cholesterol, smoking, obesity and lack of physical activity.
Some scientists have noted a relationship between coronary heart disease risk and stress in a person's life that may affect the risk factors for heart disease and stroke. For example, people under stress may overeat, start smoking or smoke more than they otherwise would. Research has even shown that stress reaction in young adults predicts middle-age blood pressure risk.
Get stress management tips and tools
Remember 80% of living a heart healthy life can be controlled by making the right choices...EVERYDAY!
So today and everyday, don't forget to LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
D
Learn about Heart Failure~
The heart is a muscle. Its pumps blood through the body. In heart failure, your hearts pumping power is weakened. Blood flows more slowly. Your body works harder to move blood.
Common cause if heart failure include
- Heart attack
- High Blood Pressure
- Narrow or blocked arteries
- Diabetes
- Overweight
- Smoking
- Alcohol abuse
- Heart Birth Defects Injury to the heart
- Illegal drugs
- Some cancer drugs
Signs and symptoms~
- Feeling Tired
- Shortness of breath
- weight gain (water retention)
- Trips to the bathroom at night
- Swollen ankles, legs and/or belly
A heart attack happens when blood can't reach part of your heart. That part starves fore oxygen. As a result, the heart may not pump blood as it should. This can result in permanent damage to the heart, or death.
Coronary artery disease is a common underlying cause of a heart attack. Your coronary arteries are the blood vessels that bring blood and oxygen to your heart. Coronary artery disease happens when fatty deposits, called plaque, build up inside the coronary arteries. This substance can narrow or block coronary arteries. As a result, the heart gets less blood.
How can you reduce your risk of a heart attack~
- Stop smoking
If you smoke, quit. If someone in your household smokes, encourage them to quit. We know it's tough. But it's tougher to recover from a heart attack or stroke or to live with chronic heart disease. Commit to quit.
- Choose good nutrition
A healthy diet is one of the best weapons you have to fight cardiovascular disease. The food you eat (and the amount) can affect other controllable risk factors: cholesterol, blood pressure, diabetes and overweight. Choose nutrient-rich foods — which have vitamins, minerals, fiber and other nutrients but are lower in calories — over nutrient-poor foods. A diet rich in vegetables, fruits, whole-grain and high-fiber foods, fish, lean protein and fat-free or low-fat dairy products is the key. And to maintain a healthy weight, coordinate your diet with your physical activity level so you're using up as many calories as you take in.
Select American Heart Association cookbooks
- Reduce blood cholesterol
Fat lodged in your arteries is a disaster waiting to happen. Sooner or later it could trigger a heart attack or stroke. You've got to reduce your intake of saturated fat, trans fat and cholesterol and get moving. If diet and physical activity alone don't get those numbers down, then medication may be the key. Take it just like the doctor orders. Here's the lowdown on where those numbers need to be: Total Cholesterol: Less than 200 mg/dLLDL (bad) Cholesterol: If you're at low risk for heart disease: Less than 160 mg/dLIf you're at intermediate risk for heart disease: Less than 130 mg/dLIf you're at high risk for heart disease (including those with existing heart disease or diabetes): Less than 100mg/dLHDL (good) Cholesterol: 40 mg/dL or higher for men and 50 mg/dL or higher for womenTriglycerides: Less than 150 mg/dLVisit our Cholesterol website
- Lower high blood pressure
It's the single largest risk factor for stroke. Stroke is the No. 3 killer and one of the leading causes of disability in the United States. Stroke recovery is difficult at best and you could be disabled for life. Shake that salt habit, take your medications as recommended by your doctor and get moving. Those numbers need to get down and stay down. Your goal is less than 120/80 mmHg.
- Be physically active every day
Be physically active every day. Research has shown that getting at least 30 minutes of physical activity on 5 or more days of the week can help lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol and keep your weight at a healthy level. But something IS better than nothing. If you're doing nothing now, start out slow. Even 10 minutes at a time may offer some health benefits. Studies show that people who have achieved even a moderate level of fitness are much less likely to die early than those with a low fitness level.
Start! a walking program
Choose a BetterU: our free 12-week physical activity program for women
- Aim for a healthy weight
Obesity is an epidemic in America, not only for adults but also for children. An epidemic is when a health problem is out of control and many people are affected by it. Fad diets and supplements are not the answer. Good nutrition, controlling calorie intake and physical activity are the only way to maintain a healthy weight. Obesity places you at risk for high cholesterol, high blood pressure and insulin resistance, a precursor of type 2 diabetes — the very factors that heighten your risk of cardiovascular disease. Your Body Mass Index (BMI) can help tell you if your weight is healthy.
Calculate your Body Mass Index
- Manage diabetes
Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of diabetes-related death. People with diabetes are two to four times more likely to develop cardiovascular disease due to a variety of risk factors, including high blood pressure, high cholesterol, smoking, obesity and lack of physical activity.
- Reduce stress
Some scientists have noted a relationship between coronary heart disease risk and stress in a person's life that may affect the risk factors for heart disease and stroke. For example, people under stress may overeat, start smoking or smoke more than they otherwise would. Research has even shown that stress reaction in young adults predicts middle-age blood pressure risk.
Get stress management tips and tools
- Limit alcohol
Remember 80% of living a heart healthy life can be controlled by making the right choices...EVERYDAY!
So today and everyday, don't forget to LISTEN TO YOUR HEART
D
Sunday, November 14, 2010
I have such memories of my Brother and with the Country Music Awards, well...he should have been there this year and every year. My Big Bro has always been an inspiration to me. We were far enough apart that we never shared a school and in school years were really years apart but he is such an incredible talent.
Time and life and certainly with the loss of our Father, I think he really put on the back burner so many of his talents. Todd can paint or draw anything and has an octave range that makes me sound male. He also can play ANY instrument but can't read a lick of music. I wish I had that talent!
I think his artistic skills came from our Mother and his stubbornness and greatness from my Father.
I was just thinking of hero's today and my big bro, Todd came to mind....
Time and life and certainly with the loss of our Father, I think he really put on the back burner so many of his talents. Todd can paint or draw anything and has an octave range that makes me sound male. He also can play ANY instrument but can't read a lick of music. I wish I had that talent!
I think his artistic skills came from our Mother and his stubbornness and greatness from my Father.
I was just thinking of hero's today and my big bro, Todd came to mind....
Saturday, November 13, 2010
I think at times I take things for granted. Because of my personal experience, I assume that everyone has lived through heart health issues or is familiar with its signs and symptoms.Today proved my theory wrong. I was very honored to be volunteering with AHA at the Veteran's Health Event at the Washington Redskins Stadium today. I am a proud military spouse and also a heart attack survivor so to me spreading the message is a given. We move A LOT in the military and having the opportunity to get a health screening in a community environment is so important. It raises awareness and also creates a bond in a community that most are transient to. The health screening expo offered a free health screening for military veterans and their families. Its important to know your numbers and understand what they mean. 80% of heart health issues can be managed by making the right lifestyle choices and knowing your cholesterol numbers, blood pressure, sugar levels and body mass index all play a vital part of the equation and can save your life.
I was so surprised today that so many men and women had no understanding of heart disease and as Women, did not have an awareness of Go Red and their movement. Juliana McKee, Miss Teen International 2010 helped to spread the word by sharing her story about her cousin Erick who passed away at the age of 12 and touched so many in doing so. She truly is an amazing young women.
Heart disease is the number ONE killer of women. It doesn't discriminate in age, health, gender or social state. I know first hand. After losing my parents and my own heart attack and surgery, I realized that YOU MUST BE your own advocate.
Listen to your heart...today and everyday....
Listen to your heart! D
I was so surprised today that so many men and women had no understanding of heart disease and as Women, did not have an awareness of Go Red and their movement. Juliana McKee, Miss Teen International 2010 helped to spread the word by sharing her story about her cousin Erick who passed away at the age of 12 and touched so many in doing so. She truly is an amazing young women.
Heart disease is the number ONE killer of women. It doesn't discriminate in age, health, gender or social state. I know first hand. After losing my parents and my own heart attack and surgery, I realized that YOU MUST BE your own advocate.
Listen to your heart...today and everyday....
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| American Heart Association! Do you know your numbers? |
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| Juliana McKee, Miss Teen International and I . Her cousin Erick's story always humbles me. She is such a great spokesperson for AHA and the Alliance for a Healthier Generation. |
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| With Congresswoman, Donna F Edwards, 4th District, Maryland. What a beautiful lady and HEART HEALTHY! |
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| In the spirit of being Heart Healthy, Juliana Hola Hoops for health! She was REALLY GOOD! |
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| A beautiful future teen intl! Her winning moment! |
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| With the team from the American College of Physicians and Glaxo Smith Kline |
Saturday, November 06, 2010
November 6 2010....it was a great day. It brought me back to a lot of memories. I still have a hard time believing I had a heart attack and stent placement in January of 2010 when everything seems so long ago. My parents seems so much more clear and I wonder if its because I still can't believe what happened, happened.
The turnout was amazing and I was in amazing company! I was in the company of Miss Teen International. Juliana Mckee and Miss International, Ashley Smith. Yolanda Makle, Ms Galaxy also joined us as well as Gail Mates (the national spokesperson for GO RED!)) so my company was not only beautiful but inspiring.
Listen to your heart! D
The turnout was amazing and I was in amazing company! I was in the company of Miss Teen International. Juliana Mckee and Miss International, Ashley Smith. Yolanda Makle, Ms Galaxy also joined us as well as Gail Mates (the national spokesperson for GO RED!)) so my company was not only beautiful but inspiring.
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| We finished the walk! |
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| Gail Mates, national spokesperson for Go Red doing an amazing job! |
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| With a future Miss Teen International, Sam! She was so beautiful! |
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| Juliana and Ashley sporting their International track suits! |
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| Juliana Mckee, Miss Teen International and I with HEART MAN! |
Monday, November 01, 2010
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| Carter Thomas Linz, our little dinosaur! |
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| So excited its Halloween! |
| Carters first corn maze! |
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| Halo not so excited with the costume |
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| Josie as a black cat:) |
So the week started with Halloween and as a proud Mom I must say that Carter made a very cute dragon! We also attempted to do family holiday photos which turned out to be a little crazy with the pets. We managed to get the family photo but will be returning to the studio next weekend for pictures of Carter.
I am also looking forward to the heart walk of DC this weekend! Our team is growing and I am hoping to reach our team goal. Please visit our page and learn what you can do to help in the fight against heart disease.
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| I hope you can join us in the journey! Only 4 more days until the walk! |
Off to a great start to the week.....don't forget to....
Listen to your heart!
Friday, October 29, 2010
When I was young, we moved around...A LOT. My Dad was a businessman and that's just what you did at the time. I was a school transplant and I am sure my life was one of bullying at the time. I was never the popular one or perfect by any standard. When I was in 4th grade there was a girl that wanted to beat me up everyday and my parents said, "get out there and fight". They weren't bad parents, its just what you did in a time where guns, knives and toxins weren't ever a part of any battle. I was never a fighter but I did gain some back bone in the process. My biggest fight was with a few neighborhood bully's. I was on roller skates. Need I say more:)
There are two worlds and people are innately kind. As time has gone on for me I am often amazed at the way we as humans treat each other. Its been through the love and kindness of friends and teachers over time that have gotten me through some of my toughest times. Its also been through my "friends" that I have come to realize that sometimes friends aren't really friends. This brings me to the real bully. TECHNOLOGY! Hey, I love it, live it...twitter, blog, cell phones, Facebook etc but lets face it, its puts your whole world out there and also allows others to see in and have there way with it anonymously.
I had the honor of judging the Miss and Teen International pageant last summer. I was so amazed at the maturity level of so many of these young ladies and many of the trials they have gone through at such a young age. It stuck in my mind that about 90% of them on their paperwork had bullying and self esteem issues as the number one thing that young women deal with today.
This is a huge issue. I have seen so much in the VOY world and assumptions made on who is posting what. College boards are no better and cater to negativity. Now I would love to tell you this all this stops at 18, 19 or 21 but even as grown married women it prevails. It is said and just makes me wonder why these forums are out there?????
In a land of information, technology and a vast amount of opinions...I ask....do we cater to bullying? Do we encourage others by actions within ourselves? Do we walk the walk we all talk about?
Listen, I realize that we cannot control everyone. There is a reason why tabloids exist, we all slow down at the sight of a wreck and, "If it bleeds it leads" comes into the news cycle. I just wish for one day or even one moment in time we could turn on the news, the computer, our phones and our heart and just be happy. Happy for everything around us and everyone in our lives. Then again, maybe its the pageant in me and world peace is just too much to ask.
Listen to your heart...D
There are two worlds and people are innately kind. As time has gone on for me I am often amazed at the way we as humans treat each other. Its been through the love and kindness of friends and teachers over time that have gotten me through some of my toughest times. Its also been through my "friends" that I have come to realize that sometimes friends aren't really friends. This brings me to the real bully. TECHNOLOGY! Hey, I love it, live it...twitter, blog, cell phones, Facebook etc but lets face it, its puts your whole world out there and also allows others to see in and have there way with it anonymously.
I had the honor of judging the Miss and Teen International pageant last summer. I was so amazed at the maturity level of so many of these young ladies and many of the trials they have gone through at such a young age. It stuck in my mind that about 90% of them on their paperwork had bullying and self esteem issues as the number one thing that young women deal with today.
This is a huge issue. I have seen so much in the VOY world and assumptions made on who is posting what. College boards are no better and cater to negativity. Now I would love to tell you this all this stops at 18, 19 or 21 but even as grown married women it prevails. It is said and just makes me wonder why these forums are out there?????
In a land of information, technology and a vast amount of opinions...I ask....do we cater to bullying? Do we encourage others by actions within ourselves? Do we walk the walk we all talk about?
Listen, I realize that we cannot control everyone. There is a reason why tabloids exist, we all slow down at the sight of a wreck and, "If it bleeds it leads" comes into the news cycle. I just wish for one day or even one moment in time we could turn on the news, the computer, our phones and our heart and just be happy. Happy for everything around us and everyone in our lives. Then again, maybe its the pageant in me and world peace is just too much to ask.
Listen to your heart...D
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
I realized today as I was making dinner that I am a NUT and I need a GPS for everything in my life. Lets recap....in the past week I had a groomer tell me my dog Jack needed ADHD medication. Jack has his own personality and is a good dog...he is just Jack. So I picked up Halo (my perfect pup) and Jack from the groomer and drove off in a huff. Lefts face it, fur or not, FAMILY IS FAMILY right? So...I was leaving the groomer and every car seemed to honk at me. I was thinking it was a bad day until I heard someone say...YOUR WALLET. Yes, that's right...my ADHD pup apparently has an ADHD Mother and my wallet was on top of my car. Thank goodness for great Samaritan's!
So move forward a few days and I did the Great Start! Heart Walk for Baltimore MD. The day was beautiful and the GPS had its own mind but we arrived. So half way around the inner harbor I realized that my cell phone was still on top of my car. So the walk turned into a run as we ran back...but we did join back in and the phone was still there...THANK GOODNESS!
So...today...I am cooking all Rachel Ray inspired. We are working out, trying to be healthy and I am venturing out on my culinary skills. I opened the oven to turn the pork chops and...here we go...my glasses fell off the top of my head and into the oven. THE BACK OF THE OVEN!
I fished them out before demise but come on....ayayayayaya...so even in a stressful week
listen to your heart...d
So move forward a few days and I did the Great Start! Heart Walk for Baltimore MD. The day was beautiful and the GPS had its own mind but we arrived. So half way around the inner harbor I realized that my cell phone was still on top of my car. So the walk turned into a run as we ran back...but we did join back in and the phone was still there...THANK GOODNESS!
So...today...I am cooking all Rachel Ray inspired. We are working out, trying to be healthy and I am venturing out on my culinary skills. I opened the oven to turn the pork chops and...here we go...my glasses fell off the top of my head and into the oven. THE BACK OF THE OVEN!
I fished them out before demise but come on....ayayayayaya...so even in a stressful week
listen to your heart...d
Saturday, October 23, 2010
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| Miss Teen International, Juliana Mckee, members of the "Got Heart" team and I |
Around 2 am this morning I woke up. It was one of those nights that a lot was on my mind. I was so afraid of over sleeping that I did not sleep!Today was the Greater Baltimore Heart Walk. IIt actually turned out to be a much warmer day than expected.
We needed to be there by 8:30 am so I knew this meant MUST LEAVE EARLY as we are over and hour and a half away. So after a failed GPS and my phone that I left on top of my car (anyone who knows me may see a pattern this week for me) we were off.
There were a lot of walkers. Some for themselves, some for others and some just because. It was amazing, The Baltimore Inner Harbor was beautiful and the sun could not have shined down on us any brighter.
A couple of things came to mind to me today...why am I walking...
After my heart attack and post surgery January 18. 2010
And who I am walking for.....my Mom and Dad who passed away from Heart Disease at 54 and 56years of age and ...
My son and husband.....
Today was a good day...never mind that, it was a great day!
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